Today I learn over reliance was bad, because when you are suddenly left alone,
you have no one to hold up the sky with you

Somewhere in this world you'll find someplace to be and someone to be with. But till that gift arrives at your door you're expected to go through a series of obstacles. You might fall but you will get up. You might hurt yourself but time will heal the wounds you have. Afterall, there's no free gifts in the world. And the more obstacles you have, the more you will learn to appreciate the gifts you have, and the little gifts you never knew you had. Enjoy life, its yours.